It is possible to create your best life, regardless of your circumstances.
How? By changing your mindset and believing in the power of your mind. You have probably heard of miracle stories where people have defied the doctors and began to get well or people who have turned rags-to-riches. They all had one common factor. They all BELIEVED they could create their best lives regardless of their circumstances.
How amazing is it that if you have a strong desire and a strong belief that you can achieve anything.
Now you may be thinking blah blah what a lot of mumble jumble but you can start to change right now with small changes.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Become the best version of yourself.
We all go through our phases of wanting to improve ourselves, usually at the start of a new year. Remember all those resolutions of losing weight, finding a new job, not watching too many box sets. We have good intentions that probably last for a month or two. We lose interest and go back to our old habits and we are soon back to everyday chores of working, running after kids and family and generally thinking where has the time gone?
The good thing is you are already unique. There is only one you on the whole of this planet. There may be people who look like you and have similar traits but there is only one of you. You are unique with your thoughts, your dreams, your aspirations.
Remember when you were a kid and you were free to be imaginative and the world was an exciting place where there were no limits. Even if your childhood wasn’t that great, there would have been times when you imagined being an astronaut, or a superhero and felt that all your dreams were just a heartbeat away!
Then in a blink of an eye you are a responsible adult with bills and a few laughter lines!
You can still use your imagination to be the best version of yourself. How? By remembering what your passion is. What gets you excited? What makes you laugh? It could be something simple like going for a bike ride or reading your favourite book. Anything that gives you joy or the same feeling of excitement that you had when you were a kid, is going to ignite your best self.
If you do want to make improvements, such as losing weight or change your career. Then keep it fun and light, don’t put too much pressure on yourself. If it is fun then it is more likely to be a permanent change. For example find a fun exercise class that you and a friend can share and have a giggle. Search for careers that you feel passionate about and be creative with a vision board or a timeline of what you need to achieve to get that job.
Remember if you believe it and have a strong desire that you can achieve it.
Love who you are.
We have been taught that people who love themselves are over confident, not like able and possibly arrogant. This doesn’t need to be the case. We need to start falling in love with ourselves. We only have one body and only one time to be here, so Let’s make it count! The times when we look in the mirror and not like ourselves has to change. We have amazing bodies that work for us 24/7 our hearts beat without us even thinking about it. We need to look in the mirror and start loving what we see, especially our wobbly bits!
If loving yourself feels like uncomfortable territory then start with small steps, focus on the one thing that you like about yourself, it could be anything big or small. You might like your hair, or your eyes it can be anything and just remember there is only one of you.
If you catch yourself thinking or saying negative thoughts about yourself. STOP! Remember you are amazing!
When someone offers you a compliment, instead of saying “What this old thing?” say thank you and take it on board. This may seem difficult at first but the more your practice it the better you will feel and you be surprised how good you will feel and how many more compliments will come your way.
Life is about having fun.
Remember fun? Remember what it was like? Well if you are not having fun in your life then that needs to change! Life is about having fun. It is about making the mundane chores fun by listening to your favourite music, having a dance while doing the housework. Anything that will make you feel light in heart and spirit can start to have a positive impact on your life.
Have a laugh, laughter is amazing to lift your spirits and to start attracting positive experiences.
Love, smiles and laughter are definitely the ingredients to a fun life.
Make life exciting.
Life is exciting if you choose to view it that way. Feeling grateful for everything you have in your life, invites more exciting opportunities into your experience. Counting your blessings will lift your mood. Try it you have nothing to lose.
When you find yourself bogged down with problems and worries remember if you change your thoughts to gratitude then your life can change in exciting ways. For instance don’t say negative words about your old car, be grateful that you have a car, be grateful for the clothes and the home you have, even be grateful for your in-laws!
Noticing your thoughts and feelings can have a big positive impact on your life.
You can create your best life. Others have changed their lives through the power of belief and defying all odds.
You are in charge of making your life exciting and by making changes to your thoughts, you can change your life.
Have fun, laugh and smile.
Be kind to yourself, don’t sweat the small stuff!
Be grateful for everything in your life.
Remember what you are passionate about. What made you feel happy?
Love who you are. Remember you are unique, there is only one of you.
Remember you are amazing!
Love and gratitude to you.
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